Friday, December 9, 2011

Life Lessons of the Week

What I learned this week.

  • Bullies come in all shapes, and sizes.
  • You make amends and move forward, if the other party doesn’t that’s not your problem.
  • Just because a bully yells something from the roof top, and a few buffoons listen to them – doesn’t mean “EVERYONE” thinks the bully is right.  It means a couple of chicken shit mice think the bully is the Pied Piper
  • I learned that this is America, and Freedom of Speech is a privilege, but taken advantage of that privilege in a mean, hurtful way erases that privilege in a nano second.
  • I learned that had free rent in a big bully and their minions heads, I'm flattered that someone cared that much about about my life and my issues, but not so happy about my stuff being aired out with their dirty laundry. I feel gross, another shower is in order! 
  • I learned that weak people follow bullies and just because a bully yells something over and over and over doesn’t make it true.
  • I learned that one person’ opinion of me is not my reality.
  • I learned that there are people I wouldn’t want in my life.
  • I learned that I have good friends that accept me no matter what, good, bad, and ugly no matter what.  Even if the bully is desperately screaming to hurt you and tell you differently.
  • I learned that I don’t want people around me that don’t want to be around me
  • I learned that a diversity of opinion won’t hurt you – seriously.
  • I learned that there are a lot of cowards amongst us.
  • I learned that when someone tried to drag my special needs child down that that person has a dark sad vile heart
  • I learned that if you own your stuff, flaws and all, and make amends your side of the street is clean, if they want to keep their neighborhood dirty, it’s none of my business.
  • I learned that I beat cancer, fight severe autism with my kids DAILY, and anyone who wants to bring us down, no longer exists or has power in my world.
  • I learned that me and my true friends ROCK!  My kids are awesome, and anyone that wants to challenge me and that opinion you better bring your “A” game, more than some 4th grade name calling. 
  • I beat cancer, I fight autism, I am a rocking mom and advocate for my children, I’m a great wife, sister, daughter, and friend, if you’re blind to it go get some glasses or go away.
  • I learned that being being bullied sucks but taking that power away from a bully, is yes, awesome.
  • I learned that this particular blog is a HUGE weight off my shoulders.
  • I learned that I can't wait to see my friend for play and lemonade later today :)


  1. I am glad you learned all that...but I have always known how AMAZING you are!! And your boys two -- what gems!!!! <3

  2. Great lessons to learn...always stay true to your amazing self!!! You forget to add that you lost 80+ pounds!!!

  3. Popped by from the Bloggy Moms blog hop. I love this list, there are some very empowering items.

    Thank you for sharing :)

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  5. I love anonymous comments when the poster really isn't anonymous. Thanks for playing and again letting me have all that free space in your head.

  6. You are welcome. By the way, in your race to get to the front of the bus, you forgot to use spell check. You may want to purchase a new thesaurus too.

  7. Your true colors are shining through. MERRY CHRISTMAS

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